You can explain the pattern perfectly. It still runs.
One-to-one coaching for people who have read the books and done the journalling, and who still watch the same reaction arrive on cue.
For years I was two people. In private I was clear, peaceful, sure of who I was and why I was here. Then I’d step into the real world, a meeting, a date, or even just with friends, and that person vanished. I’d revert to a reactive, childish version of myself that I deeply resented. I isolated myself because I felt like a fraud, and nobody ever saw the real me.
What got me was watching people with less wisdom than me do well anyway, simply because they weren’t at war with themselves.
Who this is for
The people I work with are high-functioning and genuinely self-aware. They can narrate their own patterns in detail, name the childhood it came from, quote the book it’s in. And understanding the fire has never once stopped them burning.
If insight were enough, you’d already be free.
What the work is
Six months, one to one. We find the belief underneath the pattern, we feel what’s been carried instead of felt, and then you practise being the real you out loud, in the actual rooms, even when your voice shakes.
I’m not a guru and I don’t have a magic pill. I hold the mirror until you remember who you are.
What happens on the call
You talk. I ask about the thing that keeps happening, and then I ask the questions you’ve already assumed the answers to. Most people hear themselves say something out loud that they’ve been circling privately for years.
By the end you’ll have named the pattern properly, whether or not we ever work together. Nothing is sold on it, and if this isn’t the right work for you I’ll tell you on the call.
Not ready to talk
That’s fine, and honestly it’s the more common way in. Start with the essays. Pick whichever title describes your week.
One question, every Sunday morning.
Self-awareness, the way I use the word, is asking the questions you’ve already assumed the answers to. So that is all this is. Each Sunday I send one question, and a few lines on where it comes from and what tends to surface when people actually sit with it. No lesson. Nothing to complete.
Some weeks the question will slide straight off you, and that’s okay. Every so often one follows you around for three days. That’s the one worth having.
You can leave whenever you like, and I’d rather you did than let these pile up unread.
Or send me a message. Ask me about the six months, the money, or whatever is actually in the way.